Monday, July 11, 2011

Ideas For a Coed Wedding Shower

I've been hearing a lot of buzz recently about couples throwing coed wedding showers. I'm actually a big fan of this idea, so when I found this list of ideas for doing so from Aisle Dash, I wanted to share! The coed shower is especially great for couples that are planning a destination wedding, as it provides a great opportunity to bring together all of your friends that may not be able to make the trip for the actual ceremony.

"Build Our Wine Cellar" Celebration - Hold your shower in a specialty wine store and pair appetizers with your favorite wines, suggests NYC planner Kimberlee Bendeck. Guests can bring a wine-related gift (glasses, decanter, hemstitched cocktail napkins) or purchase a bottle that evening from your wine-registry list.

"What's Cooking?" Shindig - Invite guests to partake in a cooking class with a hired chef, then enjoy dining on the cuisine you've created, says NYC planner JoAnn Gregoli. Ask everyone to share a favorite recipe and later have them all compiled into a keepsake cookbook. Be sure to register in advance for cookware, serving pieces and kitchen tools, since these will be the gifts your guests will want to give.

His-and-Hers Spa Day - You can hold this shower at an actual spa or in your home: Simply book a few masseuses and manicurists, and guests can mingle between treatments. Set up a spa-style beverage bar of naturally flavored waters and fresh-fruit smoothies. (Include pomegranate martinis and blueberry mojitos if your shower is taking place in the evening!)


Rustic Retreat - If the two of you love outdoor adventures, plan your shower at a local lodge or decorate your space with river rocks, potted ferns and other woodsy elements. Attach a mini flashlight to the invitations to set the mood and serve gourmet versions of campfire favorites, such as sliders, steak skewers and s'mores made with homemade marshmallows and artisanal chocolate. Guests can gift you with sleeping bags, camping tools and other items from your REI registry.

Al Fresco Fete - Soak up the sun at an outdoor barbecue featuring grilled shrimp, skirt steak, chicken, corn on the cob and other warm-weather fare; for beverages, serve spiked lemonade, watermelon margaritas or white sangria. Play steel-drum music or hire bluegrass musicians to give the party a laid-back vibe. Guests can gift you with grilling tools, barbecue serving pieces and other summer-themed presents.

Casino Night - Set up a gaming room at home by renting blackjack and roulette tables or hiring a full-service firm to pull off your party. Have the food served Vegas style (buffet) and give luck-themed lollipops as favors.

Cocktail Caravan - Take guests on a tour of a few of your favorite local bars and open some shower gifts at each one (after a round of drinks, of course). Guests can gift you with items to stock your bar -- think cocktail shakers, double old-fashioned glasses and martini pitchers. Snap photos of your group in front of each hot spot and frame them chronologically as a collage.

Brunch Bash - If the two of you love spending lazy Sunday mornings together, gather your group for a festive brunch. Have mini waffles, French toast sticks and scrambled eggs in bite-sized pastry cups passed on trays, like hors d'oeuvres, and top tables with pitchers of mimosas and Bloody Marys. Play jazzy tunes on an iPod and designate one corner of the room a "reading nook," with newspaper sections placed alongside a few comfy chairs. Oversized mugs filled with flavored coffee beans make perfect favors.

Check out the full list from Aisle Dash.

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